Saturday, 8 December 2012
YOU WERE CAUGHT CHEATING-WHAT’S YOUR EXCUSE?
I always wonder what makes people cheat on their spouses, irrespective of sex. Most people would conveniently say absence of adequate attention, unfulfilled sex life, financial imbalance, sudden change in appearance/attitude of the spouse.
However, if we look around properly, we might likely see a few cheating spouses who do not have any of the above as an excuse. It now bothers to say, what could be the reason for cheating? Sincerely now, if we did not have religion or morals, how easy is it to be with one person continuously for a long period of time? You wake up with the same person every day, eat with same, come back and sleep with same.
Could it simply be the human nature for desire for something new? Or just a greedy nature? Maybe lack of trust? If it is the non-sexual cheating, it is very likely to have one of the already stated excuses above as a reason. However, for the sexual cheating, one wonders as it still all boils down to one thing- penis goes into the vagina-just maybe from various angle.
Maybe I am missing something here. Otherwise, it could be safe to say some people just lack morals or they are sex addicts. Trying to split it now, for the female, the male organ naturally should feel the same within when erect no matter the size or shape and as long as orgasm is attainable, there should not be any reason for sexual cheating.
As for the males, hmmm, truly? I cannot pretend to have the full understanding of that. It's crazy right? Think about it though, what separates us from animals? The ability to have a choice and decide what is right or wrong. We cannot throw morals away and snatch silly excuses when we do wrong. Whatever the reason, I believe for a communicating couple, it should be attainable between them if they really try. Or could there be some things communications cannot change?
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From the moral and religion point of view, cheating on ones spouse cannot be justified. But being humans that we are, we err some times and the feeling of tasting or eating something different from a regular meal set in. All the same we can work on things that make us cheat.
ReplyDeleteI saw this 'when there's love, faithfulness should not be a sacrifice, it should be a thing of joy.
Dotsman
Cheating on one's spouse is probably prehistoric but I dare say its assumed bolder dimensions as a result of today's society becoming more liberal and things that were condemnable are now more excusable.I can imagine how hard it must be to live or have to live with the same person all of one's lifetime. Evidence of this 'fact' abounds a lot more in the developed West and this has not been helped by the desire to follow in the footsteps of our adored celebrities. I find women culpable the more and even the reasons why they claim for cheating the more ridiculous - ranging from material and many other superficial reasons. Finally, I will say rather than cheat, get a divorce!
ReplyDeleteWell, the male stock has more attraction to adventures.Getting caught is another thing entirely and it means the person must have been indulging in it for a time for an error of being caught to happen.It also means that he has not perfected his acts. SIMPLE - NO EXCUSE !Just repent and stop the risky enjoyment. There is nobody that does not like GOOD sex if it is actually GOOD. You then tend to seek for it outside the recommended circle. Once you are caught , just apologise and stop it. The issue now is whether your partner can give you the GOOD SEX as at when you need it ! Another topic for another day !
ReplyDelete+ or - being spiritual it's not right,Bad is Bad.facing reality of life,Variety really is spice.dats y DSTV have lots of channels,dats y we av lots of food stuffs in d kitchen.its food but tastes diff. So for females d 5**k feels same but d individual in question has skills dat anoda doesn't have.Long throat is d word,wen u want to taste anoda him or her.click
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